Ab van Deemter

22. Is It Wrong To Become Angry?

We are being taught to live consciously and to watch and control our emotions. But what happens if somebody really annoys you, or if somebody makes a nasty and hurting remark. Is it wrong to become angry then? Well, the answer to that is a bit more c... Read >

21. The Importance Of Being Able To Say “No”

Do you easily manage to say "No" to someone who wants a favour from you, while deep inside you feel you want to refuse? Or do you, like I used to do for quite some time, roll across your feeling with a bulldozer and say: "Yes, of course …..", because y... Read >

20. You Don’t Need To Think Big To Reach Your Goals

Most motivational coaches or mentors stimulate us to dream as big as possible to reach a goal in our lives. This may work well for confident people who are used to manifesting whatever it is that they want to manifest, but for the great majority of us, ho... Read >

19. The Importance Of Exchanging Energy

Everything around us is energy. Our universe, the planet we are living on, everything that lives on our planet, the chair we are sitting on, the clothes we are wearing, the glass we are drinking from, the substance that's in the glass, the car we are driv... Read >

18. Why Is Spiritual Growth So Important?

It's not easy to grow spiritually in our today's modern world, where everything seems to boil down to money, power and influence. Over the last decades more and more did we get used to focussing our attention on physical needs and wants. Extensively he... Read >

17. The Law of Attraction

Most of us live an unconscious life. The majority of people still thinks that life and the things that take place in it, just befalls them. When we just react unconsciously to what happens in our lives we tend to stay stuck in our current condition an... Read >

16. What is your choice? Depression or Joy?

Looking at your life over the past year does not make you feel very happy. Actually your life does not look so great lately. At work you have this colleague, who seemed a real colleague at first, but has become pure competition now and he or she bootlick... Read >

15. What Does It Take To Become A Good Leader?

Whether at work or at home, often we get frustrated, because things don't seem to be happening the way we want them to. We see staff or family members aimlessly drifting around and nothing gets done. It is as if our goals remain just that: goals. Well... Read >

14. The Benefits Of A Positive Attitude

Two people look at a glass which is half filled with water. Are you the person who sees a glass that is half empty or do you see a glass that is half full? We have a lot of choices in life. We can choose to look at things the negative way and always s... Read >

6. Are We Entitled To Things In Our Lives?

Are you fully aware of the fact that you create your own reality?- or do you feel entitled to a certain level of existence or a better life? I remember there was a time in my life that I thought that life and the things that took place in it just happe... Read >

5. The Importance Of Being Grounded (2)

- Do you know what it feels like to be grounded? - Do you know how you can achieve better grounding in your life? I remember that, although I was meditating for quite a long time already, I had difficulties in feeling what it was to be grounde... Read >

1. Personal Development

1. Personal Development by Ab van Deemter There has been a time in my life that I was only chasing money and personal success through money. For quite some time I managed to live a wealthy life with lots of so-called friends. And although ... Read >

13. 5 Methods To Get Rid Of Stress

Nowadays stress is, as we all know, public enemy number one. Everyone of us suffers from it and it takes a heavy toll on our body, mind and emotions. And since our society of today requires more and more involvement in our work, it does not look as if thi... Read >

12. 10 Ways To Make You Feel Happy

It is a known fact that our health is being effected by the degree of happiness we feel inside of us. We know that the happier we are, the healthier we become. The more we can avoid a stressful life and live happy the more disease resistant we are. If ... Read >

11. Nothing Is Impossible

All of us, at some point in our lives, have had dreams of being somebody special, someone who achieved great things. We all had dreams of being rich and famous, successful and happy. Unfortunately only very few amongst us have made those dreams come tr... Read >